There may be something you fear to face. You’d rather stick your head in the sand. Yet by avoiding the truth, you are creating your own imprisonment.
On some level you know the mirage of wishful thinking you are engaging in – a dissonance – a split mind – a lie. Don’t do this to yourself. Face reality as it is.
Sooner or later, your house of cards will collapse – your mirage will dissipate – and you will find yourself broken and hurt. Don’t do this. Face things as they are.
No matter how ugly you fear your situation may be, only from a point of truth do you hold the key. When you stick your head in the sand, you make yourself impotent.
Don’t run and hide pretending you are powerless. Stand up and take charge. Face yourself. You are most certainly worth it. You are more than able and competent.